Finding your own style after becoming a mum

Joanne Becker is a personal stylist based in Sydney with a background in international fashion buying. Contact Joanne on 0438 247 334 or joanne.becker@bigpond.com for any further information.

As women, we can find it hard to feel confident in ourselves and the way we look after having a baby. Who do we now want to be in the workplace and how should we present ourselves? Our priorities and life have changed dramatically and this can often lead to a crisis of confidence. What used to suit us no longer may, and it is hard to feel empowered when you feel uncomfortable and unhappy with your outward appearance.

As a personal stylist and a new mum, I know this dilemma intimately. It is not about spending lots of money on a new wardrobe. I enjoy most helping my clients learn to love their own wardrobes. It might just be about teaming some pieces together differently; or adding a belt to re-define a new body shape. The single most important piece of advice I can give is to start from the ground up! Our bodies will definitely be different, and the underwear we used to wear will probably not be appropriate any more. Invest some time and money in buying some new pieces that fit you like a glove. A lovely smooth line under clothes is very important for the overall fit of your wardrobe. Elastic that pinches and bra straps that dig in will never be flattering on any body type.

Understanding your personal style can stop expensive shopping mistakes from taking place, your renewed self esteem is priceless. Maybe it’s a strong new corporate look you’re after or just a wardrobe that is hassle free to fit in with your new lifestyle. If you’re not happy to start this journey alone, a personal stylist can guide you in the right direction. Why shouldn’t we seek support and assistance around issues linked so closely to our sense of self and confidence? The majority of time, it is just a matter of learning a few key tips in understanding how to make the most of your personal style. Once this is unlocked you will stop having to spend hours agonizing in front of your wardrobe feeling overwhelmed and uninspired.

Good luck and have fun!